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How about people can only sign up with an invitation code from another member?

I agree that this would be a good solution

The server is extremely slow right now for me.  It took over 15 refreshes to load this forum page as it was timing out every time.  My site was also consistently timing out, even simple HTML pages without mySQL or PHP usage.  Someone must be abusing the server.  I don't mind too much if it goes slow every once and a while since I am not paying much but I don't like when it times out as visitors leave my site.